The risk is real, and if you play this way, you will get STIs. This danger is part of the fun, but it’s not a fantasy.
You don’t have a “What’s your HIV status?” talk beforehand. If you’re doing anonymous play correctly, you don’t know the names or any identifying details of the guys fucking you. You must become something of an authority on appropriate healthcare for a sexually active gay man. You have to have decent health insurance and be close to a place where you can get comprehensive STI screening on a regular basis. Know what questions to ask your doctor, and have an idea of what thorough medical care looks like. Get STI testing very frequently (once a month, or even more frequently if you’re having a lot of condomless sex). To live with this risk, you must stay informed and educated about the latest in HIV/STI care and treatment. Those who do it well are fully aware they’re engaging in high-risk sex, and that’s part of the thrill. If you’re interested in doing these things, I’ll go over everything you need to know besides the health risks, which are covered in this post.īeing a cumdump is about more than taking anonymous loads in your butt.
